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These are my rough notes of what is being written on the flip chart during the VRM meeting breakout on 2006-01-25.
These are my rough notes of what is being written on the flip chart during the VRM meeting breakout on 2006-01-25.
==Relationships vs. Expressions==
* [http://socialcustomer.typepad.com/vrm_expression_matrix.pdf Relationships v. Expressions (PDF)]


==Types of Relationships==
==Types of Relationships==
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* friendship
* friendship
* family
* family
* membership
* fanboy
* contract
* contract
* employment
* employment
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* mentor / advisor
* mentor / advisor
* citizenship
* citizenship
* blacklist
* champion
* familiar stranger
* familiar stranger
* colleague
* teacher
* stalker
* neighbor
* patron
* customer
* customer
* vendor
* vendor
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* nemesis
* nemesis
* cohorts
* cohorts
* shared experience
* enemy


==Expressions of Relationships==
==Expressions of Relationships==
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* contract
* contract
* employment
* employment
* ask advice
* <span class="plainlinks">[http://www.180mma.com/ <span style="color:#000000;font-weight:normal; text-decoration:none!important; background:none!important; text-decoration:none;">mma training</span>]
* expose yourself to vulnerability ("trust")
* expose yourself to vulnerability ("trust")
* blacklist
* blacklist
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* federation
* federation
* referral/introduction
* referral/introduction
* <span class="plainlinks">[http://katyperryfirework.net/ <span style="color:#000000;font-weight:normal; text-decoration:none!important; background:none!important; text-decoration:none;">katy perry firework</span>]
* sponsor
* sponsor
* invite
* invite
* rebuff
* rebuff
* evaluate
* evaluate
* bug / PDA
* hug / PDA
* advocate
* advocate
* commenting (e.g. blogs)
* commenting (e.g. blogs)
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* respond
* respond
* keep apprised
* keep apprised
* request
* extend credit
* support
* vouch
* shared experience
* having coffee
* conferences


==Dimensions==
==Dimensions==
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* Transparency
* Transparency
* Intensity
* Intensity
* Frequency
* Commitment
* Commitment
* Control
* Control
* Potential to real
* Potential to real
* Latent to explicit
* <span class="plainlinks">[http://www.americanwoodvents.com/ <span style="color:#000000;font-weight:normal; text-decoration:none!important; background:none!important; text-decoration:none;">Air Return</span>]
* Reciprocity
* Reciprocity
* Symmetry
* Symmetry
* Frequency of interaction
* Cardinality


== Some interesting questions / thoughts ==
== Some interesting questions / thoughts ==
* Are we presuming that relationships are bidirectional? (e.g. crush) No ...
* Are we presuming that relationships are bidirectional? (e.g. crush) No ...
* Relationships are not boolean -- there is a degree, e.g. very close vs. "have heard of some guy.."
* Relationships are not boolean -- there is a degree, e.g. very close vs. "have heard of some guy.."
* Law/lawyers as a source of a relationship taxonomy
* Confucianism as a source of relationship taxonomy
* A social network that doesn't allow you to include your enemies isn't worth having.

Latest revision as of 10:30, 27 August 2011

These are my rough notes of what is being written on the flip chart during the VRM meeting breakout on 2006-01-25.

Relationships vs. Expressions

Types of Relationships

  • marriage
  • business partnership
  • counselor
  • subscription
  • friendship
  • family
  • membership
  • fanboy
  • contract
  • employment
  • confucian
  • mentor / advisor
  • citizenship
  • blacklist
  • champion
  • familiar stranger
  • colleague
  • teacher
  • stalker
  • neighbor
  • patron
  • customer
  • vendor
  • circle of trust
  • sponsor
  • priest / shaman / rabbi / ...
  • advocate
  • alumni
  • nemesis
  • cohorts
  • shared experience
  • enemy

Expressions of Relationships

You know it is a relationship when ...

  • there are implications for the future
  • expectations
  • recognition
  • subscription
  • payment
  • tipping
  • genealogy
  • hate sites
  • strong feelings
  • recommend
  • contract
  • employment
  • mma training
  • expose yourself to vulnerability ("trust")
  • blacklist
  • conversation
  • stalking
  • repeat patronage
  • badmouth
  • reliance
  • federation
  • referral/introduction
  • katy perry firework
  • sponsor
  • invite
  • rebuff
  • evaluate
  • hug / PDA
  • advocate
  • commenting (e.g. blogs)
  • give gifts
  • find
  • respond
  • keep apprised
  • request
  • extend credit
  • support
  • vouch
  • shared experience
  • having coffee
  • conferences

Dimensions

  • Time
  • Transparency
  • Intensity
  • Frequency
  • Commitment
  • Control
  • Potential to real
  • Latent to explicit
  • Air Return
  • Reciprocity
  • Symmetry
  • Frequency of interaction
  • Cardinality

Some interesting questions / thoughts

  • Are we presuming that relationships are bidirectional? (e.g. crush) No ...
  • Relationships are not boolean -- there is a degree, e.g. very close vs. "have heard of some guy.."
  • Law/lawyers as a source of a relationship taxonomy
  • Confucianism as a source of relationship taxonomy
  • A social network that doesn't allow you to include your enemies isn't worth having.